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It’s Grow Up Time, You Too, Peter Pan!
Forget the keg stands and beer pong victories. Men, leave your dirty jeans and vintage rock n’ roll apparel at home. Ladies, Mr. CEO doesn’t care how stunning you are in heels; give the spaghetti straps a break tonight! Its time for the dreaded realization that you’re growing up! Unfortunately, responsibility and professional etiquette will largely define your impressions in the workplace; thus, a few Insider tips and tricks might just save your reputation from the common social-scene blunders!
Dress: This is not a “kegger.” Business-social events are not favorably remembered for blurry hook-ups or obscene language; although, these mistakes can and will likely define your character henceforth. Accordingly, “dress to impress!” For company outings, it is professional and smart to dress in business attire, unless otherwise noted. Keep in mind, your average co-worker is likely a product of the 70s or, worse yet, a breathing artifact of the silent era. Be conservative with attire and present yourself in a manner that reflects an emerging professional.
Conversation: Dis’ ain’t no rap show, nor is it clarification in British Literature accompanied by tea and crumpets. Stay calm and speak clearly with co-workers; acknowledge their professional background and spark conversation based on your common interests. Personal vendettas should be left in jealous corners or coat rooms; nagging associates with private issues will disrupt the company environment and likely cut your conversation short. Do not exhaust the chat with company jargon; be familiar and responsive to your surroundings without transforming banquets to boardrooms! Generate an inviting smile and openness for contact; non-participatory associates are easily replaceable. Slip into the spotlight by offering individual thoughts which benefit the company and your relationships within it.
Etiquette: First impressions are often recognized as mirrors of potential. Be courteous and impress your associates with polite manners; attentive participation and geniality are the platforms for honest communication. Climbing the corporate ladder is long and laborious; proper etiquette is your key to climbing in the fast lane. Put others before yourself and honor the manners momma gave you! In time, professional etiquette will build the honest relationships you need for respect and success in the workplace.